What is REACT?
REACT We cannot expect to be any more successful at controlling our emotions than a ship at sea can expect to slow the tides or stop the coming of a storm. Too often our immediate response to a challenging emotion is to try to shut it out. This often backfires on us and can become the start of a pattern of maladaptive behaviors such as rage or addiction, and we end up acting on impulse rather than reason - emotions end up controlling us (for example, acting out of anger and throwing your phone on the ground when you feel insulted) when we seek the feeling of control. The key is to acknowledge the power of emotion and what we feel is not totally in our control. An analogy can be made to how we experience the climate. We cannot expect to will the rain to stop and rain clouds to disperse, but what we can do is adapt to the rain by using an umbrella or wearing rain boots for the puddles. What is key is acknowledging the weather, our emotions to be what they are and something n...