"I wish I would have known that years ago..."

To the things we know now that we wished we had known years ago, the feelings that come up could be challenging and we could end up stuck in bewildered thoughts of self-pity. "How could I have been so blind." As though self-optimization were possible and that every minute of every day is within our control.. Yes, I have been led to believe this and to look at the past with such ingratitude. In response to my bewilderment over being so "late" to realize what work I "should have" done years ago, a good friend sent me this very helpful meme: 




"You're not too late. You're just aligned with a future that takes time to build."

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