Engaging students with Empathy

 As group facilitators, let us really exemplify the Empathy piece to REACT for our 8th graders by allowing them the space to express themselves and help us understand what they feel. Let's seek to understand what it is like to be in their shoes.

This is from a recent article in TIME magazine about American teenagers and their mental health challenges:

"Adults try to make your problems almost disappear. [They say things like,] 'You'll get through this. This is a small time in your life. You'll forget about this in like two years.' But in that moment, I'm just sitting here thinking that my whole world just caved in on me. They're not letting me feel how I want to feel."

 



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